Amazing women seem to be everywhere and yet at times seem so out of reach. These women surround us and yet they might as well be on another planet. Unless we broach that seemingly insurmountable distance between them, and us that is how it will always be.

But don’t despair, there is more than one way to skin a cat, so to speak. If you really want to know the secrets to how to Meet Women, look no further. This may seem like it is pretty basic, and in some respects it is, but it is essential that you learn this if you want amazing women in your life.

The first thing you need to do to Meet Women is expand your social circle. This is possibly the best piece of advice anyone can give you in this area. Start building up a group of friends and then make it larger. I did this when I moved to New York City and only knew one person. Within six months I had several different circle of friends I had pulled from different areas of my life – from my work, from my apartment building, from my gym and from the volleyball team I joined.

Then the fun part was organizing activities that brought all these different people together. One key thing I always do is when I invite someone somewhere – if it’s a public place – I always tell him or her to bring some friends. I’ve made long-lasting and amazing friendships this way and also been introduced to tons and tons of fantastic women. This is the number one best way to Meet Women.

After that I would say to brush up on your conversational skills. Even if you have a great group of friends and the opportunity to meet amazing women, you still need to have something interesting to say so you can get to know them further.

Here are some ideas that have worked for my friends and me: Learn how to tell one good story from your life and practice it until you are a great storyteller. One of my favorite stories to tell involves a ghost. After you learn how to Meet Women, you want them to stick around, right?

Another very important thing to remember is that being perceived as a great conversationalist has more to do with being a good listener than anything that comes out of your mouth. Too many people are under the mistaken impression that they need to be scintillating and entertaining and witty to be a good conversationalist. So not true. They’ve done studies showing that people who are perceived as the best conversationalists are the ones who listen and pay the most attention to what the other person says rather than worrying about what they are going to say.

If you want to Meet Women, you would do well to keep all of these things in mind. Figure out how to grow your social circle so women naturally come into your life and then figure out how to talk to them and get to know them so they will stick around.